Ephesians 5:31-33 NIV : “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[a] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
To end our week off right, today's blog is primarily about the fabric that makes not only this country & our communities great, but ultimately marriage is supposed to tell the truth about God. Pictured today is a portion of my family (Bianca, wasn't with us) at a wedding I officiated almost a year ago. What's sad is that in just this past year alone, I've been made privy to so many marriages that are either ending, or have ended. If my memory serves me right one of the heaviest vows that both couples take is, "for better or for worst." Somehow we've reprogrammed ourselves and have said "until I can't take it because worst will be whatever I make it to be." By no means am I saying one should be married to a person whose goal is to degrade and ultimately destroy you, but I do challenge you to think about .......DOES YOUR MARRIAGE TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT GOD? We are human, so we will sin against each other, and many times unintentionally. Because we are human, not perfect, we will say things and do things that will hurt the other person...IT HAPPENS people! But despite all of that.....there is a reason why GOD HATES DIVORCE (Malachi 2:16) not people that divorce) because divorce says GOD can't. It is the couple communicating that God's grace, God's power, God's overall ability to turn things around won't work here. REALLY? Read the book of HOSEA and tell me GOD can't. Paul stated that when a man & woman leaves their parents the two will become one flesh...... Will is the operative word, meaning this is not "whaaaalaaaa" magical wave aof a wand working, but rather a constant work in progress that two people will slowly think so much of the other (needs, and in their best interest)that their thinking and living will be towards the goal of ONENESS! Paul described this as a mystery...why? Simply put many marriages nowadays are all TALK. We pay thousands of dollars for a hall, we invite hundreds to hear us say vows we don't mean, buy gifts for a home, that get's spit during divorce. We are hoodwinked into believing that marriage is about MY HAPPINESS, and GOD wants me happy. WHERE was that mentioned in the vows, or in scripture. GOD desires that you be HOLY.....happiness comes and goes. Does your marriage communicate GOD's devotion (love) toward us, GOD's forgiveness toward us, GOD's grace toward us, and GOD's power in & working through us? The only way ONESS ever happens is when two people sacrifice themselves year after year after year that when people see them, they say "They are inseperable, " and the sad truth is we don't say that much, or even see it.
GOD PLEASE invade and strengthen our marriages.....our kids need them, our communities must have them, and without them we won't make it. AMEN
www.youtube.com/watch?v=OW5KdkaOuI0&feature=related Check out I NEED YOU by TYE TRIBBETT on YouTube.com

